While we wait for encouraging news of more referrals in spite of the swine flu slow-down...
We've been learning about the importance of healthy attachment and the reality that this is something we'll need to consciously nurture in Baby Rock. We've also discovered that our family and friends will play a significant role in helping us develop Baby Rock's deep understanding that we are her forever mommy and daddy.
(The title of this posting is a link to an attachment site.) This site is amazing, offering scientific reasoning and pragmatic suggestions. We would be grateful if our family and friends explored the site (especially attachment 101 and the suggestions for family and friends) as we will need to call on your patience and support even after this long wait for Baby Rock!
Greetings, Guests!
We will use this blog to share news as we move one step closer to Baby Rock each day.
For those who need a bit of background...
We decided to adopt a baby from China in September/October of 2005. After completing mountains of paperwork, background checks, fingerprinting, etc. (collectively called the dossier), we were officially on China's waiting list on April 14th, 2006. This moment of acceptance is called the log-in date (LID). This date is quite significant because families are matched with children according to LID. If you follow referral dates (the date a waiting child is matched with a waiting family), you will be able to see how close we are to being matched--at least in theory. When we started the process three and a half years ago, China was matching month for month, meaning one month of LIDs were taking one month to match. Now, unfortunately, one month of LIDs is taking about four months or more. So...we wait...we vent...we cry...we breathe...we hope...we believe.
*To our family and friends-
A huge hug and thank you for sharing our frustration and our joy as we practice patience and faith, knowing Baby Rock is just over the horizon.
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