Monday, June 7, 2010

What a difference a day makes

The day began with nervous stomachs. Typically, Todd and I would have relished the unique dining experience of the hotel's buffet breakfast--so many interesting foods to try! Today, however, we simply picked at a sampling of "safe" foods (the ones we recognized). We didn't need to wait too long, though, before walking across the street to meet our daughter (still sounds crazy when I say and hear that). Our group, including our agency's on site consultant, two couples, our neighbors and their boys and us (11 people total), braved the insanity of morning traffic at 10 a.m. (more about the traffic later). We walked into the official building not knowing if our daughters would be there yet. When I heard our consultant say, "Do you want to stop for a picture or do you want to see your baby now?", my heart started racing. Our consultant was two feet in front of us, and he could see our daughter around the corner! We found our feet and made our way around the corner and there she was. We knew her instantly (couldn't take our eyes off her) but weren't sure what we were supposed to do. We waited until we were called forward and were motioned to her with a nod. That's all the permission we needed. In a moment she was in our arms and in our hearts. I cannot truly describe what this moment was like, except to say that I am in love--in love with this little person who mesmerizes me and in love with Todd, who is even more than the amazing dad I knew he would be. The following pictures are from our first day with Emmaxia. Thank you for sharing our joy from across the miles!

4 comments:

  1. Thanks for sharing - brings tears to my eyes to follow another family becoming a family. It's a beautiful thing. Congrats - she's gorgeous!
    Gina (aka RQ vtmama)

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  2. Oh Tara - I am misting up while reading your entry. What a beautiful and amazing blessing. Emmaxia is so lucky to have you as her mother. Congratulations. Sarah Bauer

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  3. Tara and Todd,

    So beautiful...words escape me. Congratulations.
    -Barbara Traynor

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  4. Awwwww.... this is so amazing! I can't express it in words how I'm feeling right now. I am:
    Excited
    Happy
    Teary
    Oh my gosh!!! I LOVE YOU BABY ROCK!!!!!!!!

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We decided to adopt a baby from China in September/October of 2005. After completing mountains of paperwork, background checks, fingerprinting, etc. (collectively called the dossier), we were officially on China's waiting list on April 14th, 2006. This moment of acceptance is called the log-in date (LID). This date is quite significant because families are matched with children according to LID. If you follow referral dates (the date a waiting child is matched with a waiting family), you will be able to see how close we are to being matched--at least in theory. When we started the process three and a half years ago, China was matching month for month, meaning one month of LIDs were taking one month to match. Now, unfortunately, one month of LIDs is taking about four months or more. So...we wait...we vent...we cry...we breathe...we hope...we believe.

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